They ought to have a Blamers anonymous, something like Alcholics anonymous.
I think I'd have to join. It seems although I do well in many areas of my life, I still have this little habit that keeps popping up, putting at least a minor dent in my life experience.
Do you blame?
Ok, i'll start with mine, most recent. Someone close to me seems to believe it's ok to dump her less than jolly mood on me, as if somehow I'm the one responsible for what ails her in the moment. So i get irked a bit (Is irked even a word? must be) and then I blame this noticeable downturn in my mood back on her. Taa-daa...It's a blooming epidemic of blame-itis (knowing the pharmaceutical companies they'll soon put a pill out for it. I wonder what they'll call it? Blame-no-more? Endallblame? BlameX?)
How about a liitle ditty?
You blame me
I blame you back
It aint fun but then,
That's where we're at
A combination to make the devil glad
Ok, I've had my fun. Now I think I need to put an end to it. I certainly don't want this mood to go out into the universe and manifest accordingly.
So, bless her and bless me, wish us both much love, peace and harmony. Take a deep breathe Robert, ok, and another one, GOOD.
Now, feel better, find a better thought, feel better, breathe, remember something lovely about her, pray to god, god bless us, bless us.
Make an affirmation "All is well, It's all working out somehow, even if I can't see it"
Think peace, calm, breathe, let go. Think of something pleasant, pleasing, nice.
Ah, here's a good one: