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My mother is threatening to commit suicide

over the STUPIDEST thing, something so abysmally ridiculous that I'm not even going to put it down. But she's crying her balls out over it and drinking and breaking things and crying and screaming and threatening divorce too. We were driving back home from my tutoring and she says, "How about we both just crash/die?" (it's a word that includes doing both things at the same time) and for a second allows us to get a little too close to a city bus on the road. I was closer to it. Of course nothing happened, but only after I caught my breath did I challenge, "Sure, go right ahead!"

I flatly notice my almost complete lack of sympathy. Funny. I can feel sympathy for a stranger millions of miles away when I read another sob-story on the news, I can feel sorry for a tragic anime figure, I can even cry over what I make my own anime characters go through. My eyes well with tears when I think of my (mutual!) crush, who has been sick for quite some time now, just because I don't want him to suffer and don't like that he is. In fact, just yesterday I was BAWLING over this movie on Youtube, Painful Secrets (AKA Secret Cutting), saddest thing ever. But it's hard for me to feel sorry for this woman.

Because she has hurt me so much, in so many ways, so deeply. She drove me to the brink of suicide many times, she makes me want to hurt myself and others, she is toxic to my sanity and poison to what's left of my childhood's innocence. I used to struggle with food (but thanks to a couple of books I've recently read, I have acknowledged and accepted the miserable futility of such an existence) and now I hear voices in my head, rather it's just one voice, and it's HERS, her fucking critical miserable voice that makes me want to OD on pills and wash it down with vodka. I'm bleeding. Not physically, but emotionally and mentally. If those could be converted to physicality, I would be cut and scarred and bleeding all over and dying from blood loss.

Reluctantly, I hug her as she's standing there holding back the tears, smeared mascara, and offer a few gentle kisses, but there is no quipping urgency in my heart to truly make her feel better like there used to be. I don't really care. I'm not a little girl anymore. I have my own life and it is independent of hers and just because she is miserable doesn't mean I have to run to her side and beat myself up trying to make her happy again. I mean it's like, sure I'd prefer it if she didn't freak out all over the place but nothing more than that. I am too cold, too numb. I simply don't have much feelings left, and it's fine that way, I'm not sad. Even though I haven't seen her cry and break down in many, many years, I am not that upset. I'm just ... eh, melancholy, I guess.

I miss my grandparents. They're on the other side of the globe and they won't be back for another 3 months. I want to call my grandmother and whine, but I won't. She doesn't need to deal with this. I will. Of course.

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Comment by Dave Kenyon on July 17, 2009 at 3:25pm
Natalia, there are many things I wish to share with you and they all boil down to not allowing your mother's sad life to become yours. Since you gravitated to this site it is obvious that you do love and care for yourself. No child should have to go through what you have gone through; in your life. Having said that; you can create a loving and fruitful life for yourself.
I urge you to expose yourself to all the information you are able to about The Law of Attraction. Through proper use and knowledge of the law you can turn your life around.
Are there any adults in your life that you trust? Do you have anyone at school or in your neighborhood who you respect and who respects you?
For many years, I have worked with young people with very tough backgrounds who needed opportunity and someone who loved and appreciated them.
Now that you are 17 you may need to be that for yourself. I don't know if you appreciate how strong you already are as a person.
No matter how bad things get at home; there are always options and ways to create a life of beauty and love for yourself; something you truly deserve.
Light and love to you, my friend, ~Dave
PS : If you wish to dialog some let me know.
Comment by modesttreasure on May 31, 2009 at 12:41am
(*Hugs*). Wow, on the one hand it is quite a sad situation. On the other hand, I would probably be more mad than sympathetic of someone that would let their emotions get so out of control that they get that close to a bus with an innocent passenger in the car. Are you sure there is no one else you can stay with? That is practically endangerment. It sounds as though she needs to see a professional to deal with her emtional and psychological state.

I know it's easier said than done, but definitely hang in there. Try to tune it out if you can with awesome music, hang out more with friends in the area, join extracurricular activities, and other things that might help you stay out of the house (volunteer work). Maybe talk to a counselor or call an anonymous hotline to get some tips on what to do. It sounds more like you might be better off as an emancipated minor, but if you can live with your grandparents or maybe with a friend then that would be perfect. It does sound like a tough situation, and I'm sending you positive vibes to help. If you need more help, I can contact my friend in Brooklyn to see if she has any ideas. She lives with her parents in a crowded house in Chinatown, but she might have some ideas. Possibly save up some money and stay in a hostel?

Wow, that would drive anyone crazy. You are a brave and beautiful spirit to have dealt with this and keep it together as much as you have right now without going over the complete edge. I'm surprised she hasn't been reported to the authorities. Anyway, I'm sending positive vibes your way. Hang in there and keep focusing on attracting something better into your life.

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