Should I stay or should I go?
As a light worker this question comes to mind a lot in our fast movement forward. My friends, lover, family, spouse are so stuck in the lower vibrations it does not even feel good to be around them. Should I leave them? Will this help me to stay away from those that are not moving forward and working on themselves? It no longer feels good to be around lower energies. So we tend to isolate ourselves, stay away from those that are stuck in lower vibrations. This is probably a good idea when you/we ourselves are still not very strong and need to work more on moving the vibrations/frequencies to a more stable point and ever upward. Clearing out the old patterns and blockages.
Energies are changing rapidly especially for those that are working full out on clearing up their own inner baggage, that has been holding you/us down for life times.
I see this a lot as people clear up their lives they just automatically bring in more light and then of course earth has new energies coming in and we are actively allowing ourselves to integrate with these energies. A necessary thing to do if you want to move forward with earth and help those that cannot and are still stuck. But then we start to feel less tolerant of those that are around us and we feel we want to remove them from our energy field.
We cannot remove ourselves from lower energy, to do so is equal to abandonment and we all know how awful that is. Most of us have been there especially as a child.
I feel the best course of action is to keep working on you (me) and with that inner work we are helping to raise the collective. Practice sending love to those close to you which well help them to move along their path. There are so many that are still locked subconsciously in fear of the future. (Outward signs of this is feet, legs and/or hips are in pain).
Practice erecting a protective shield around yourself that is filled with positive energy and divine light. With the intention that lower energies cannot affect you.
So unless the situation you are in is causing you tremendous strain, I say stay and keep working on you. Remember what Abraham says (channeled by Esther Hick) If your vibration is higher then those that are lower will either strive to raise their’s or they will zig when you zag.
Of course you always have to do what you feel is right, however I'll tell you what is happening in my home. I allowed x-husband to come back in my life i even asked for it in meditation and manifesting work. This is because the love has always been there. I just could not live with him so we parted in 2002 and got back together in Dec of 2008. So he has been with me for 8 months now and as I look back at how he was when he first moved in and how he is now there is a huge difference.
I have never forced any of my beliefs on him but I talk when ever there is an opening. And I have struggled each month with maybe I should tell him to leave because we are on a different page all together. And I told him before he came the importance of what I do and if I have to choose my path comes first. I will not allow any interference. Well he does try, but I live in a small place and he is a very big and active man. Like having a bull in a china shop ;-)
When he first came here he still had that trigger temper, I never react to any more. When he is done I ask him if that ti rate made him feel better. He always apologizes.
I now see him shutting the TV off and reading. I see him sitting outside in the evenings so long that he falls asleep out there and he loves it. He is getting happier and complains less.
Yes he is moving forward and the only way I can tell is by looking at how he was and how he is now.
I also think that he has help me to release some things that I thought I did not have any more like judgment. i saw I needed more work and did it and the more I allow those around me to move at there own pace and just be centered in my own self, keeping my momentum going, I am seeing slow changes around me, by those that my vibration is effecting.
Trust me I was worried that those around me would pull me down, but I am finding that each day I am stronger. No going to that mountain top to be alone is not the answer, as my Angels whispered in my ear to not abandon those that are dear to me, that I do make a difference. I suddenly understood what to do and why. The outcome is in this post I did for all to see.
We each of us make a difference.
I Love You
PS for those on my site, I highly recommend doing the Morning Tap session, every morning