My story so far has been quite remarkable.
From a lost little boy to a confident professional.
I wanted to share a few practical things that I think definitely aided my transition in the hope it can help someone else.
1. The people who surround you
I think it is important to surround yourself with people who have the characteristics you are trying to obtain. I have always tried to have people around me who push me. If you’re the smartest in your group, you need a new group.
Very important to believe in yourself. When you believe in yourself miracles happen. I have found that when I really believe in a specific goal my physical actions do not contradict this belief in fact, when I really believe, my physical actions are in line with this belief (or goal). I think this is the key to knowing if you truly believe in something.
In my opinion arguably the single most important attribute needed for astronomical success. People who succeed (or appear to be successful) fail a lot more than they actually succeed. I personally have failed countless amount of times more than I have succeeded. With every failure I take the lesson and move on because failure to me just means there is something I needed to learn. By viewing “failure” with this attitude I have had amazing results. Winners never quit and quitters never win.
People tend to focus on what they do not have or the lack. When you focus on the lack you get more lack. When you have gratitude for what you do have you get more of that also. I find people generally focus on the wrong things thus attracting more of this lack. Try giving thanks for what you do have i.e. food in fridge, family, roof over head, health, children, friends etc. You do this for 20 days and it will change your life! But it takes determination, you have to constantly police your thoughts and replace any negative thoughts with a positive.
Everything that ever existed originated first as a thought. No matter how bad you feel things are for you now if you are able to imagine yourself out of your current situation and really FEEL GOOD about this day dream I promise you miracles will happen.
So Approach life with the right attitude, surround yourself with good peoples, always give thanks for what you have police your thoughts and do not believe in anything that does not serve you. If any of this this helps just one person for a split second than I feel it was worth it!
Positive vibrations to the world.