So I've been friends with an ex for a while. I feel like we grew a bit closer. Not to a point where we are best friends and where we can completey confide in each other but our friendship is better than before post breakup.
Anyways during our 2-3 years of friendship after breakup, he got into a new relationship but was dumped after 2-4 months.
Recently for maybe about a month now, he is now liking a new girl. I overheard he's not looking for a relationship and is just going with the flow.
I was scared she might like him back. So i asked my friend who is friends with the girl some stuff like how she feels about him. A couple times she said she doesnt know what to feel and wants to get to know my ex better. But then later on i heard she only likes him as a friend. And now just earlier, my friend told me the girl said she might like my ex. My fear might be manifesting.
If you looked at my past posts, you can tell im on a journey on getting back with my ex. Idk but i feel like rushing to get to him first before anything happens between them. But ik i shouldnt feel like that and accept that he likes someone right now. The only thing that makes me feel better is that this wont last long, and she MIGHT like him and she isnt sure about things. So i still have some hope.
I need advice. How do I accept this current sitatuon I am in, and manifest a better friendship and a new relationship with my ex? I want to connect with him emotionally and deeply but I am too focused on how I should do it, and what to do in general.