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Permalink Reply by Mirjam on May 5, 2008 at 8:59am

Hi Aprin,

I know the feeling of being desperate and thinking there must be something wrong with me but I don't know what.
But that was the old me. Now I am visualizing my soulmate and true love. Sometimes the feeling I get is so strong that he is there already (I know that is the best way but I don't get it always that strong).
Since I read the secret, 3 weeks ago I feel much better about myself and about getting that special relationship. I know he is there somewhere and that he will come to me and that will recognize each other.

I can't give you any other advise but to as stay positive as you can.
I will tel you know as soon as I met him.
I send you al the positive energy you need and loads of love. Keep up the hope and love, your soulmate is there somewhere for you to.
Mirjam

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Permalink Reply by andrea on May 5, 2008 at 9:08am

try to forget about finding or meeting him/her, and just concentrate on becoming the person you will be proud for your soulmate to meet.

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Permalink Reply by Sharyn on May 6, 2008 at 6:09pm

I agree with andrea, are you at your point in life where you feel you are presenting the best of you that you can? , just be you and your happy self,
NOW close your eyes, see you at your best, looking good, smelling good, and at the best point of your career that you have or want, surround yourself with the ones you love, at a restaurant, club, or even at the grammys, the world is your oyster. Now you will feel a tap on your shoulder, you turn to your left and you can see him, your heart just stops.
Has he always been around you in life, or is he someone new. Get creative,
Now hold this with you, remember that smile you just had when you saw him, remember that feeling you just got over your entire body, those butterflies that filled your stomach, hear that beautiful music that was playing around you, and know this is YOU, this is where you will be, there is no stopping you now, you are going out into the world a different and reformed person today, WHY? because this is your life and your are going to take control of it, your beauty awaits for you, get on those high heels or fav track shoes and start walking your path, open your front door and I can gurantee you will feel all your opportunities fly through the door, right through you, and you will KNOW what is too come, and what greatness is to follow.
I dont need to say good luck, because we both already know that it is coming, dont we......
You go girl..... I wish you all the best in your new venture......

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Permalink Reply by FAITH on May 17, 2008 at 10:28pm

Sharyn, loved your reply i totally agree with you!
Aprin, in your jurnal or on a sheet of paper make a list of what you want your ideal mate to have, from what he looks like, smells, like his interest's,and so on....release it!!!!...Expect it & you will attract your mate! :)

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Permalink Reply by Debbie Greene on May 6, 2008 at 6:43pm

Here is what Abraham says..................

The greatest gift - the ultimate relationship

Do you know the relationship that you are all looking for? Do you know what it really is?

You want the relationship between you and you. And when you meet a person who looks fondly at you, or who is appreciative of you, or someone you look fondly upon, or someone you appreciate, it just hooks you up to your Inner Being, which is what you want all along.

So the relationship you are all looking for is the relationship between you and you. And everything else is just helpful in that, really.

Don’t you find that interesting? That what you really want is a reason to vibrationally connect with who you really are.

And so, you ask so much of people because you say to them, “You need to be the one who causes me to feel good.” And what we want to say to all of you is:

If any of you are without the relationship of your dreams right now, that’s a wonderful thing. Because now you have an opportunity to work on the relationship that really matters first and foremost. And then, in that connection, the relationship of your dreams will come.

But you are going to discover the relationship of your dreams is really your own Inner Being. It’s that infusion of clarity and confidence and wellness, that’s what you are reaching for.

And it is nice to have a human friend who holds you as their object of attention and adores you right into your connection. But we want you experience greater independence than that. We want you to say to you lovers, “I love you, but I don’t live for you. Because Source Energy flows through me. You are a catalyst to my wellbeing, but you are not essential to my wellbeing. Because I’ve got that figured out on my own. I have reached for thoughts that give me relief. And I have relieved myself all the way into my full connection of who I really am. And now we can just dance and play together.”

Can you feel how you take them off the hook? In other words, do you know how many men would flock to you…? (ALL OF THEM!) …if they knew that you would allow them to be as they are and you would not hold them responsible for your happiness.

That’s what everyone wants. How much bondage is there in believing that your happiness depends on me, so I’ve got to figure out what you want, and stand on my head in all those different ways, and it’s not even possible!

The greatest gift you can give anyone is to be happy. And we will take that further. The greatest gift you can give to any partner, past, present or future is to be so connected with who you truly are that they are irrelevant to your connection. And when they are irrelevant to your connection, then you are going to have a really good time together.

San Diego 2/7/04B

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Permalink Reply by Boomshakalaka on May 6, 2008 at 9:38pm

This is pure gold, absolute beautiful truth! Thanks Deb!

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Permalink Reply by Hoffie Oman on May 7, 2008 at 12:03pm

Great Post Debbie

You have to be happy within yourself before you can be happy with anyone else....You should never rely on anyone to make you happy... you are the master of your own happiness...

I truly beleive this...

Kawthar

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Permalink Reply by Chris Tinney on May 7, 2008 at 1:07pm

That Abraham quote rocks! Thanks for sharing it! I started to write something along the lines of loving yourself and then read that.

the other thing I would ad is GO VOLUNTEER , anywhere, doing anything doesnt matter.
It will put you in a great circle of friends and I beleive help you have a full and fulfiling relationship with YOU as Abraham describes.

Pick something you're passionate about and you'll be amazed who you'll meet :)
(if Im wrong you'll still feel really good , LOL)

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Permalink Reply by Debbie Greene on May 7, 2008 at 1:16pm

I think volunteering is a great way to just get out of the house!

YOU meet people, raise your vibration (if you intend to have a wonderful experience volunteering) and get new perspectives from which to jump off from!

We should have suggested it to the person posting who was lonely!
Can't be lonely while pulling garlic mustard in a forest preserve with your kids.

Debbie

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Permalink Reply by Ashlyy on May 16, 2008 at 12:08pm

I just came back from volunteering in Brazil. I honestly met some of the most amazing people (friends for life) there who taught me a lot about the type of person I'd love to be. :)

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Permalink Reply by Michael on May 19, 2008 at 1:03pm

I like to believe that the qualities you admire in another are the qualities you have in yourself. You may not know it yet.....but they're n there somewhere. Like attract like. *wink*

*HUGZ*

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Permalink Reply by TheAlchemist on May 17, 2008 at 7:36am

ah perfect :)
thank you.

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