HOW TO ATTRACT "SOULMATE" OR "LIFE PARTNER" (according to LOA) ??

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Permalink Reply by Adam Taste on May 16, 2008 at 9:16am

Well.. Here I am, when is our wedding going to be? I'm only marrying you for the money tho ;)

Anyways, I think if you put yourself out there in a way thats 100% authentic with who you are and have that feeling of KNOWING that this is going to happen. Like ... Here I am... I wont be denied! Then you will attract a partner, it's inevitable.

It's great to write down what you want in a ideal partner... for example what I go for in a girl is 3 things... a great energy, a great personality and a great sense of humor...

You got 2 out of 3, not a bad start.

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Permalink Reply by star on May 15, 2008 at 9:17am

Hi!
im new here:)
i have one question for all of you: do you think that its possible to attract a specific person in to your life. For example: you are really in tune with yourself...you know who you are and u know who you want usually the law of attraction works but i dont know if it works in this case. cos i can control the other persons feelings, and i can imagine us together and feel all the emotions that go with beeing in love and to have someone love you back, but that dosent mean that he will feel the same even if wished for this and feel the love.or will he?

pls help:)

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Permalink Reply by Adam Taste on May 16, 2008 at 9:37am

It's possible to attract anything into your life. When you put yourself out there 100% and dont make any appologies for who you are, mixed with the LOA, no doubt that you will attract the person that you mostly desire.

At a deep level we all have the same wants and desires. We just set boundaries on different people. For example, Imagine in your mind that there are 3 square slots. One says friends, one says family and one says lovers.

Now think of friend, see them in that slot of friends... now if you try and move that image of your friend into the lover slot, it doesn't want to go right? So basically you have set the boundary with your friend that they wont fit into the lover slot. (unless there a friend with benefits, thats always fun)

But what i'm saying is, when you meet someone.... you're automatically slotting them into the friends slot or the potential lovers slot. So when you naturally slot someone into that potential lovers slot, you get to know and share things with them that you wouldn't if you where friends.

So inevitably you get what you want, but they dont have to have every single trait you desire, all you have to do is feel attraction and that chemistry... and isnt it exciting knowing that there are many different GREAT potential lovers out there that can fit into that "one" slot?

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Permalink Reply by Mirjam on May 17, 2008 at 3:40am

Hi,

I don't think it will work to attract someone that absolutely doen't want you. You can't controle someone elses feelings and if someone does not want to be with you, there is no point in attract him or her. I think that is not what is best for you or that person.
Maybe you can add something to your wish that states that you believe the univers knows best for you who to attract, that person you have in mind or better.
Isn't that what we all want...to attract the one that is best for you.
Know that your higher being and the univers work together to give you the best soulmate you can have, even better than you ever imagined.

Love, Mirjam

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Permalink Reply by iken on May 16, 2008 at 9:45am

Hi, I did some very deep work on relationship skills, and I worked with a "sponcer" at the time , i went through a time of abstinance from outside relations and developed a relastionship with me as well as a relationship IDEAL... at some point after my sponcer said that great thats just like the person I would look for!!! then he simply said " be that person"... you cant atttract what you are not !!!
also often the things we ask for come when we stop looking for them.... Kenny

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Permalink Reply by Aprin_Beauty on May 16, 2008 at 11:02am

awwwwwwwwww, Adam, slow down, baby , hahahahaha

nice to read ur comment, but really, I'm not sure what U r talking about in the first one :)
And in ur second opinion, I don't totally agree. Some lover relationships I know builded step by step from friends relationship. Not always started with "fire" chemistry.And just for ur info, ask some couples who have been married for years. Maybe the "fire" only been there for maybe at beginning 5 years of the marriage life. After that ? they don't call it "fire" anymore, but more to affection, respect and responsbility. And lovers relationship that builded from friendship at first can even long lasting because contains of those three aspects.


And hi Star, welcome to this wonderful community !
Yes of course accoding to LOA, it's possible to attract a specific person in to ur life. But remember, nooone is perfect. If U worship perfection, then that perfect person will never be there. Me my self still struggling to accept the fact that noone is perfect, because I always want perfect person ( who doesn't?) and I'm so easy to get dissappointed when I found out even little things that I dislike from my partner in the past. Maybe that's another reason why I keep single untill now after some broken relationship ;)

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Permalink Reply by star on May 17, 2008 at 9:02am

Thx for your answer aprin_beauty:) you know what is funny? that i accept all of his flaws and i love and support him.i know hes not perfect and that he has his flaws but...in my heart hes perfect for me.and that is what its important. and after reading all posts in this topic i know that i can do this i just have to be positive and fell the bond between us that has always been there and we just need to strengthed it even more.

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Permalink Reply by Aprin_Beauty on May 16, 2008 at 11:23am

Hi Iken

What u stated : you can't atttract what you are not !!!, it's similar with what Bob Doyle said in THE SECRET movie : "alike attract alike" (Do I say right ?;) ) It means If we wanted religious person, we should to be religious first. If we wanted a good person, we should to be a good person first. Start with ourselves first, to get along with what kind of person we want to attract in our life.

Someday, I said to mom, I want a religious husband who can lead me to the right path. My mom smile and said : start to go to pray regularly, instead of spending most of ur time to go to discotheque ! Hmmm, maybe my mom never seen THE SECRET movie or read the book, or even dunno what LOA is, but she has given me very good advise !

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Permalink Reply by Avatar on May 17, 2008 at 4:42am

The Law of Attraction works amazingly well. Anything we succeed at and do well requires several ingredients: passion, attention, and perseverance. Many of us find success in education, career, and our hobbies by applying all three and yet so often many expect relationships to happen by accident and if we used that approach for our careers, we would be on the corner begging for change. However, putting attention on becoming the best partner one can be by a lifelong commitment to becoming one's personal best is the first place to start - personal growth. Then what worked for me personally was to make a two page list - with every detail of exactly what I wanted in a partner in every detail of lifestyle, personality, looks, education, values, spirituality, other physical traits, hobbies, etc. I made such a list and read is daily. After about a year, my wife showed up in my life one day and I looked at my list and realized she was everything I had dreamed of and much more (we met on spiritualsingles.com), so i threw the list away realizing I didn't need it, as the women in the list was in my life. Be picky, ask for everything you desire and leave nothing out, and focus on the vision of what you want everyday with anticipation and this applies to everything in life - money, business, houses, cars, personality improvement, children, pets, etc. Place focused attention on what you want and you will attract the right person into your life and visualize as already done and with an attitude of gratitude, being thankful for this person in your life, with an image of them already being there in your life. I did this and it worked beautifully and many others have created the relationship of their dreams the same way. I wish you the best in creating and believing fully in your dreams.... NOW!

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Permalink Reply by Mirjam on May 17, 2008 at 5:26am

Thanks so much!
I will make this work for me to.
Love, mirjam

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Permalink Reply by Aprin_Beauty on May 17, 2008 at 8:25am

THANKS AVATAR,

what a nice advise and example,
my question now, that as I said before that "nobody perfect" but I want someone perfectly.
so by writing down the list of everything I want in a partner, and then I focus on it, according to LOA, I would attract that kind of person in my life. So, if I mentioned every single perfect things in the list, I will attract that perfect man right, right?

My list will be :
1. He is religious
2. Handsome
3. Educated
4. Rich
5. Caring and loving person
6. Having kind heart
7. Honest
8. Having same hobbies with me : singing, watching movie, reading, travelling and doing sports

now I'm focus on it........ hmmmmmmmmm.....

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Permalink Reply by angee on May 17, 2008 at 8:43am

I was a single parent for about 16 years, then I thought I would like to be married. What I did was visualize a wedding ring on my finger, and the qualities that I would like in a man. From time to time I would see the ring on my finger, I didn't have one there, but mentally I saw it. I did it from time to time, and then I let it go, not trying to figure out where I would meet him. I work in a jail environment, and would you know he was an officer that came to interview a prisoner. At 40 who knew I would get married. I have been married for almost 8 years. It can happen!!

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