If we can choose to be happy despite any and all circumstances then there is not one circumstance that we need to hope against. The circumstances will no longer hold power over how we feel and thus we will no longer attract ones we do not like because we will always find paths out. If you feel like your hope is contradicting your attraction then take some time to see if you are holding resistance to what is now. If you are resisiting what is only temporarily happening (everything is temporary) but if you are resisting it then you are actually holding focus on it and it will persist as long as you keep it as a focus even if that focus is inside out so to speak. So rather than focus hope against what is now, follow Melody and simply know that things will be different at some point. You will get through this but sending love and strength your way none the less.