Hey guys and girls,
I'm doing affirmations, theta binaural induced visualisations, reframing my thoughts, subliminals etc, but I think my 'vibe' is stopping all this from working.
What exercises/practices can you recommend for me to start changing my vibe so that I become more irrestible/attractive to girls and have an abundance of choice in who I want to have sex, get into a relationship with etc.
I want a beautiful girl, who has some understanding of spiritual/self development concepts, enjoys sex, is girly in the sense that she wants to be 'protected' but also has an opinion, etc.
As a girl, I think I know the answer here - you need to have a LOT OF CONFIDENCE AND BELIEF IN YOURSELF.
Confidence do make men irrestitable ( at least for me)
It is great you are doing things to change your vibe, but unless you actually go to girls and start talking to them, things will not change.
The worst thing to do is just to do the spiritual work,but to wait and EXPECT the perfect girl to come to your door and to declare her love for you. You need to show others your new positive vibration through inspired action ...
As a girl I would share I love when the boy starts the conversation and basically shows initiative. Plus, girls love men with a sense of humour.
So, I'd say work on your attitude when you are in the presence of girls you like :) good luck
Confidence makes everyone attractive.
That only makes sense, confident is usually alignment and so when you are in alignment you attract and are attracted to the perfect people, situations and actions.
That is why you always read that popular advise of " just be yourself" and go out and have fun, etc.
You do not have to do any laundry list of affirmations, tappings, subliminals etc etc, unless you want to do one of those things and it's fun for you to do.
Keep the Focus on YOU being the person you know you are, and the perfect person will show up in perfect timing, or a series of them, whatever is the match to the confident YOU
Here's a topic that might interest you. http://www.powerfulintentions.org/group/soulmate/forum/topics/the-o...
Thanks everyone. I found a product that resonated well with me and adjusted the parts that didn't resonate with me. It has two love visualisations, an eft tapping session, a task to list 10 things I love about myself and 3 things I will do for me, saying I love and listing all kinds of items and people, and repeating 'My soulmate has found me' 100 times. All this is done daily for 30 days. So it's about changing the vibe we send out so that people are drawn to us, rather than doing manipulative stuff to pull people to us.
But, I don't like the idea of a soulmate. To me it feels like there's that one person whereas I believe in abundance in the sense that there are lots of women out there who are perfect for me. So I changed that to 'I am love'.
I don't know what it was, but I felt emotional when I was saying that 100 times. And again later in the day it hit me.
Plus one girl was into me at the bar but I think my mate blew it for me. And another girl gave me a flirty look in the street.
What are your thoughts? Why would I feel emotional like that?