Naturally, my hair is very curly/afro-textured/frizzy and when my hair gets wet, it shrinks alot (it goes from collarbone length to ear length) . My hair is also a brownish-red but it's very dark and hard to tell. I want my hair to be curly all around (some parts of my hair are only frizz instead of curls). I want to completely get rid of frizz and hair shrinkage. I also want intensify the red in my hair, and make it longer, healthier and shinier. I want this to happen naturally instead of using products. This is a lot I want to change and I'm not sure how to do it. I thought of visualization but I never saw someone with the hair that I desire for inspiration. I also thought of cell-talking and affirmations but it would be too much to ask. If anyone has a suggestion please let me know. Thanks and much love!