This is something very confusing. Because like most people they would say you cannot attract out of neediness / Desperateness for something because neediness attracts more neediness, but is this all entirely true? I mean look at some of the most successful people in the world. They would talk constantly about how much they strived for something and how much they would work. Is this not a form of neediness? if so then how did they attract so much into their life under this "Neediness"?