Im not even bad looking. Im very cute! Im just not a bombshell you know? So today, someone messages me, a guy who attended a party that I also attended, and he says "you were really cute at the party!" and my mom goes "Well he must have not had any other options if he's talking to you!!!"
Why in the world does she have to do that?! No, Im not "as beautiful" as my mother but it doesn't mean that its a crime for guys to say nice things to me. This is why I came to this forum board because I want to prove her wrong. One time she was talking about a particular group of guys and said "They go for the ugliest women they can find!! Oh, you'd be a perfect target for them!" Then she gets upset when I get upset telling me I need to get over my insecurities because no one was calling me ugly. She makes me feel even worse about it by pinning it on me! Saying its MY fault for getting offended at her comments.
Im SO TIRED of her and her friends telling me Im unattractive. Ever since I was little her friends were so mean to me because I don't look like her. Its disgusting and Im done with it. Im doing whatever it takes to achieve my goals because this year is not going to be this way. 2015, I refuse to wake up in the morning feeling less-than or not good enough.
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