HELLO FRIENDS AND THANKS FOR STOPPING BY!! FOR THE PAST TWO YEARS I HAVE HAD THE EXTREME PRIVILEDGE & PLEASURE TO COMFORT, ASSIST, PRAY WITH AND FOR SOME AMAZINGLY WONDERFUL PEOPLE HERE AT PI AND AROUND THE WORLD! SOME OF WHICH HAVE TRULY BECOME WONDERFUL FRIENDS, CONFIDONS, PRAYER PARTNERS AND RICH SOURCES OF DAILEY INSPIRATION TO ME!!
(YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE & I AM GRATEFUL....THANK YOU!!!)
I LOVE THIS FORUM AND GROUP BECAUSE I REALLY BELIEVE 'LOVE' IS THE ANSWER. SO MANY OF US COME TO THIS GROUP AND FORUM POSTING 'CONCERNS' (OFTEN VERY CRITICAL ONES) ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS! OUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THEM....OUR FEELINGS ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS....THE PEOPLE IN THEM....WHY THE PEOPLE ARE THE WAY THEY ARE IN THEM......THE PEOPLE NOT IN THEM AND WHY.....WHY SOMEONE ELSE IS ACTING THE WAY THEY ARE IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS AND HOW IT ULTIMATLEY AFFECTS 'YOU'!!! SO I WANTED TO POST SOMETHING THAT I KNOW WILL HELP!!!
THIS POST IS FOR YOU TO COME AND POST OR DISCUSS OR LIST OR ACKNOWLEDGE OR SHARE OR EXPLAIN OR BE GRATEFUL FOR THE WONDERFUL 'LOVE OR LOVES' IN YOUR LIFE!!!!! EVEN IF YOU'RE NOT YET WITH THE PERSON.....EVEN IF YOU ARE WITH THE PERSON BUT THINGS AREN'T AS GREAT AS YOU KNOW THEY COULD BE......EVEN IF YOU HAVEN'T MET THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE YET BUT YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'D LOVE ABOUT THAT PERSON.....EVEN IF THEY DON'T KNOW YOU YET.....EVEN IF YOU'VE HAD PREVIOUS PROBLEMS AND ROCKY TIMES IN THE PAST.....THIS CAN BE FOR YOUR LOVER, FRIENDS, SPOUSE, CRUSH, CO-WORKER, BOSS, NIEGHBOR, FAMILY MEMBER.....ANYONE AND EVERYONE THAT YOU CAN FIND SOMETHING TO BE GRATEFUL FOR IN YOUR LIFE!!! YOU DON'T HAVE TO PUT THEIR NAME IF YOU DON'T WANT TO!!!! THIS IS NOT A DISCUSSION TO COME AND 'QUESTION' THE LOA...BUT RADTHER EMBRACE IT FOR ALL IT'S WORTH AS FAR AS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ARE CONCERNED!!!! STOP BY ONCE A DAY FOR YOU'RE LOVE......STOP BY ONCE A DAY FOR SOMEONE NEW IN YOUR LIFE OR SOMEONE ELSE YOU'RE GRATEFUL FOR......STOP BY A FEW TIMES A DAY WHENEVER YOU FEEL THE NEED TO REPLACE NEGATIVE FEELINGS WITH GOOD ONES BY GENERATING FEELINGS OF GRATITUDE FOR THE ONE YOU'RE SENDING LOVE TO.....STOP BY FOR THE AMAZING PEOPLE YOU MEET AND WORK WITH THROUGHOUT YOUR DAY OR WEEK.......BE CREATIVE....POST PICS IF YOU LIKE.....WRITE A POEM....SHARE A SONG.....WRITE AN IMAGINARY SCENE YOU'RE GRATEFUL FOR.....IT'S ENDLESS REALLY!!! DON'T POST QUESTIONS! DON'T POST CONCERNS! DON'T POST WORRIES OR FEARS....ONLY GRATITUDE......GRATEFULNESS.......THANKS.....APPRECIATION.....WITH ANY AND ALL THINGS ABOUT THAT PERSON OR PERSONS THAT BRING YOU HAPPINESS AND JOY!!!! IT IS MY INTENTION THAT THIS POST WILL HELP HEAL BOTH YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND MINE AS WE FOCUS ON THE GOOD IN ALL THE WONDERFUL PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES! THERE ARE OTHER POSTS HERE THAT MAY BE KIND OF THE SAME BUT THIS GROUP IS ABOUT LOVE AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH SHARING MORE OF IT!!!!!! LETS REMEMBER THAT WHAT WE'RE GRATEFUL FOR MULTIPLIES!!! I HAVE A FOUND THAT IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO WRITE ABOUT SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT AND ARE THANKFUL FOR WITHOUT BEING FLOODED WITH THE CORRESPONDING FEELINGS!!!! I LOVE YOU ALL!!! THANK YOU FOR BEING MY FRIENDS HERE!!! STOP BY......SHOW SOME LOVE.....AND GET SOME BACK!!!
I LOVE YOU ALL AND I AM SOOO GRATEFUL FOR EACH AND EVERY ON OF YOU!!!!!
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May I start this by saying how much I LOVE this love post thread & the idea of this and the group here and PI and well anyway all of that but now....focusing! ;-)
I’ve debated with myself about whether to share this because it might just be empty words. Or it might not be! But it’s beautiful & since Thursday when it happened when I remember it, I’m grateful! Sooo
I’m grateful that Adam said “I’ll meet up with you soon. Take you somewhere nice. You know I do care about you I’ve just been a little messed up recently and I’m sorry I’ve treated you badly. I’m a nice person.”
That sounds to me it sounds kinda romantic too anyway I was pleasantly surprised to be sent those messages suddenly in the conversation we were having!!! you know how people can apologise when you & them are discussing something they’ve done wrong? It wasn’t like that. We were talking about other stuff, like work stuff and then BOOM there it is. Spontaneously just there without provocation from me is it genuine? Hopefully!
But regardless, I’m just happy for now & since Thursday that it was said. And I want to remember that it was said :) and I’ve been wanting to share it because I’m really grateful for that
I found it hard initially for about two and a half weeks after things ended with Ruben though I got to see him one more time and then Adam A came along.
His turn for some appreciation now :-)
Adam well our first day we met was still the best for me. We WERE that couple in the tube being all huggy and kissy and that was just magic for me. You said if when we met you liked me you'd just come up to me and KISS me and you actually DID it. We recognised each other then you legitimately walked up to me and kissed me on the lips! I still admire that confidence so much! And meeting you ONLINE but NOT online dating. A message on a social site but this guy was someone I actually found attractive! You're so generous. You probably don't have a ton of money but you always like even if it's just chips or pizza if you think I'm hungry you always buy us food.
But even that night we walked around your local area for hours in the dark and we were exploring all the different buildings and pathways and the canal and the lights that was fun too.
You're SO caring about me. I don't know WHY you care so much if I have enough work, enough money, if I am eating healthy enough and enough food but you really do. Sometimes I really feel like you've got my back.
Like Ruben and T., you're also gorgeous actually you're totally my type physically to me you are an Adonis. And SO sexy. You don't do it all the time but it IS nice when you text asking about my day etc. And loaning me your library card, even going to your local library together, it's a bit different but kinda cool and putting me on your netflix thank you and NEVER take me off it!
From you one of the things I am learning is about even if I ever DID get to the worst case scenario but you're helping me in some ways to NOT get there, like how I would survive and stay safe. And that's helped me remove some of that fear. A lot of that fear.
Encouraging me to cook a bit to save some money, I did a little and I feel a bit proud of myself and also for you saying about getting some extra work, pushing me to try for that, to help me, but it's got me a bit of that but that's also taught me a few new skills with nice people in a gorgeous environment. I wouldn't have even tried without you.
Haseeb, well I think you can have a mention too. OK also a hottie ha ha. I have sometimes been able to ask you for dating advice and things & you've tried to help. I have loved when we've kissed we didn't do it much but sometimes I CRAVE kisses, touch SO MUCH. And I got some of that. And even the arm around me that time. That felt so nice so thank you for that. And even telling me the bit you DON'T like about me but it might be something I can work on and better myself in. For me etc.
I forgot about this beautiful thread here and I HAVE been thinking lately about some people who have been in or are in my life this year and one it was also last year too and I want to give thanks here!! I really do love this post so much and I will try to remember to share more here. And it's something that's been on my heart a lot, the appreciation that I have even though yeah I haven't changed the single thing yet (damn it!) but I feel like I've been LEARNING things and there's some nice experiences in there so without further ado. There's some parts i'm not ready to share JUST yet heh heh but I wanna testify ;-) the bits I am!
T: I am so grateful that you became my friend & for a little while there a part of my social life & brought other people in for us to meet with and have nice evenings out with. You made me laugh I made you laugh. You did flirt with me at one point and the odd times I flirted back, even though initially you were surprised! you seemed to enjoy it ha ha!
You have turned a part of my world and identity on its head and got me questioning some things but I think it's a GOOD thing & it's possibly leading to more self knowledge & options and I love myself whatever those answers end up being. Thank you for asking the questions I wasn't even asking myself. And thank you also in some ways for being a role model to me. Thank you also for being this catalyst.
Ruben: Hmm let's start at the beginning. Thank you for being someone I met OFFline, I haven't met anyone OFFline apart from socially for a LONG time. (Did I write about Ruben? Who cares, I'm gonna celebrate him again!) And for helping me get to my destination and giving me the joy of a guy I found surprisingly cute when you turned around to give me directions when after I got where I needed to go you suddenly said "OK, gorgeous, here it is." I was surprised you called me gorgeous even though I noticed your little side smiles at me like you were thinking it and I DID wonder! And then you gave me your number and wanted to meet for coffee! I only got to spend about 6-7 times with you but it was lovely drives in the country side most of the time that was mostly what it consisted of and laughs and long chats. Plus the kisses and stuff were nice too of course. And that time we spend some time in your car, arms around each other sharing funny and uplifting videos on our phones, I loved that too. And for MAKING me HAVE to be in the moment with you because of your circumstances we knew it would have a shelf life so I HAD to just make the most of it but that was a good lesson to learn?
To just enjoy every second with you, or anyone.
Which I HAD learned but had sort of forgotten a lot in my quest for love.
Sometimes, many times, I've let that quest overshadow the great moments with people.
I was SO SO stressed at my job, Ruben, it was an AWFUL job.
But you'd take me on big long country drives and make me laugh and we'd see beautiful trees and one time I remember seeing a sunset and a moon...and you'd help me leave that stress behind. Even if I had a full on day with things happening at work the next day, I knew meeting with you would be worth any tiredness cos it would help me to calm down and laugh.
Oh my gosh I LOVE that idea and I think I might explore that!
Hmm food for thought.
Go for it. A few months ago, I sent some thoughts to a girl I rather liked (and was really inspired by) and the following day, one who was rather like her, appeared in my world. That was just one day, so think who could come into your world, after a sustained period of time.
I just read this bit now. VERY cool!
I have been thinking that this could be a great way to manifest a relationship, or someone special. Send love to them in this way BEFORE they have even come into your life. I'm thinking that by doing this, you would be sending out s pilot wave of appreciation, which people on the same wavelength will tune into.
I AM SO GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THE ASSISTANCE I RECEIVED IN GETTING THE 'NEW FORMAT' FOR MY RADIO PODCAST SO I CAN START PRODUCTION AGAIN!! I AM EXCITED T GET STARTED AGAIN! MY PRAYER IS TO CONTINUE ENCOURAGING EVERYONE IN MY SPHERE OF INFLUENCE TO A GREATER UNDERSTANDING OF GOD'S PRESENCE AND LOVE!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU & THANK YOU!!!
I AM SO GRAETFUL AND THANKFUL FOR THE SUPPORT OF MY SISTER B.W.B. WHO SHOWED SOME REAL LOVE WITH HER MOTHER ABOUT A MONTH AGO OUT OF THE BLUE. I THANK THEM FOR BEING OBEDIENT TO THE SPIRIT TO SHOW SOME SUPPORT WHEN I NEEDED IT MOST!! ALL PRAISE TO GOD!!
I AM SO GRAETFUL AND THANKFUL FOR GODS SUSTAINING POWER IN MY BODY AND HEALTH!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!
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