I have been a positive person my entire life and since finding the secret I have brought so many things into my life and have learnt to be so grateful for small things like car parking spaces or large things in my life, like jobs, unexpected cheques.  I use the secret to help me everyday and to keep progressing with everything in my life.


I was in a long term relationship, which was so solid & our whole life together was infront of us, until a few weeks ago.  We always said how lucky we were to have found each other and that we could overcome anything together.  We have gone through so many changes together over the years together and I was so thankful for this relationship everyday, as was he, so when from nowhere he broke up with me and my entire world turned on my head, I was, still am, heartbroken and my faith I feel is on the verge of being broken too.  I had 100% faith in our relationship and was so grateful for it everyday and I know he was too.  Our friends/family are all shocked that he has cut me out of his life so fast, as they too know how deep our relationship was and friends looked to our relationship in awe, wishing they had what we had.  


Its hard enough to try and get over what is a life changing time in my life but on top of that the thing I look to in my life 'the secret' I now feel has failed me.  I'm not sure what I did wrong. I know I was thankful and am thankful for the people things I have in my life but that wasn't enough.  I love the start of a new year because I can proclaim what I want and will make happen this year but feel like this year has been incredibly incredibly hard when I was feeling so happy and being genuinely positive about my future, our future together.  I don't know what to think or make of it. 


I need to be able to believe in The Secret again, without any doubt, but I do not know how to after such a disspointment and such heartbreak.  If anyone has similiar stories or any words of advise that could help I would appreciate it.



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  • Thank you so much for all your comments.  Reading your kind words does help me.  Thank you. x 
  • Nick is absolutely right. Most of us are bound by our five physical senses which tell us very little about the true reality. It is important to realize that things that we think are horrible are not necessarily so.


    Also keep in mind that relationships are a tough one when it comes to the Law of Attraction. Like attracts like and when people grow and expand on the inside, that likeness begins to fade. The problem is, our subconscious minds don't always tell our conscious minds about it so unexpected break ups happen. The reality is, as sentient beings, we can drift apart, even when one person does not want that to happen. This is why in much of the literature they tell you to imagine the traits of your perfect partner and that person will show up. If you attempt to use this for a specific person (even maintaining a current partner), it will very likely fail you. Your will cannot override another's.


    I know that this may be of little comfort now but know that the universe has not failed you. It is moving things around for your benefit, and benefit you will.



  • Aloha ButterflyGirl,

    I'm so sorry to hear you are going through such a sad and difficult time. I would love to be able to say something that would change everything for the better, but unfortunately, I think only time can heal these things.

    It sounds like you have a wonderful support group in your family, friends and people here on PI. I think that will prove to be a great comfort to you throughout this experience.

    This may be of little comfort to you now, but I've always found that pretty much every bad event I've gone through, no matter how horrible it was, has changed my life for the better. It often takes a while (sometimes years) for me to figure out how it positively changed by life, but I almost always figure it out with the help of time and perspective.

    I'm glad you posted this message here on PI, because there are a lot of  really smart, insightful and caring people here who will be able to provide you with wonderful support and information to help you through this difficult time you are experiencing.

    Hang in there. ~♥

    With love, light & aloha from the middle of the Pacific,




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