Jim Chien Beige replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Thank you James. I sent you a friend's request to tell you my story."
May 31, 2016
James replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Hi Allicat,

I know how hard and upset you are when someone you care about sends you messages like this. It is like your heart has been stabbed.

Your friend though is a very good friend with great advice. Whatever you do please do not give him the…"
May 31, 2016
James replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Hi Jim,
I think what you are doing is fantastic. You are dealing with the situation without getting upset or showing him how you really are feeling inside.

Looking at the situation from someone who does not know either of you it is hard to…"
May 31, 2016
Allicat replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"I really don't know what to think anymore. The more time passes, the worse I feel for having said what I said, and I regret so much.
The message he sent was written in a friendly manner, there was so sign of anger. And he doesn't drink, so he…"
May 31, 2016
Jim Chien Beige replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"One question not related to this topic...
(I don´t want to call it my ex, so I´m gonna call him my love). 
My love left me a week ago (sunday). He went to my house to pick up his things but left many clothes and shoes there... We have a dog that we…"
May 31, 2016
James replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Hey,
Strange if he does not want anything to happen then why bother messaging you at all. 
The best thing as your friends have said is to not reply. By not replying you are keeping hold of the energy as he will not know why you did not respond. I am…"
May 31, 2016
Jim Chien Beige replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"And deactivate your Facebook please!!!"
May 30, 2016
Allicat replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"No, I didn't get in touch with him at all. he just sent it out of the blue, and I have been advised by friends not to reply to it.
:("
May 30, 2016
James replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Hi Allicat,
Ok lets have a look at this message.
Did you reach out to him before he sent you this?
Have you replied to his message?
Did he just send this himself without you contacting him?

If you can answer this I will help you make sense of it.…"
May 30, 2016
Allicat replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"He got in touch per message last night saying that he sees no future for us and that right now there's no going back. I guess that's my chances gone then"
May 30, 2016
James replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Hi Allicat,

I think the best way to think about it is that when you met him you did not use LOA. This just naturally happened between you.
He will not be using LOA as he might not know about it. I would not let yourself think too hard about matters…"
May 30, 2016
Allicat replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Dear James, if I am applying LOA and doing what I can to get him back but he does not use LOA and perhaps doesn't even miss me anymore, will I be able to attract him at all? Because I'm sure he's still hurting so getting back with me may not b what…"
May 29, 2016
James replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"You are doing the best thing possible by working on yourself. If you can work on loving yourself then you take away that responsibility for your partner to make you happy.

This is a very powerful way of healing yourself and making sure you are…"
May 27, 2016
Allicat replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"IHi Jamres, I did it because of my selfworth issues. At the time i felt like i wasn't worth being loved for who i was and the faults i have, and i felt misunderstood. but i guess he did too. it was only afterwards that i truly saw my mistakes and…"
May 27, 2016
James replied to Allicat's discussion Advice needed on how to get back my ex in Get your EX back
"Hi,
Well you are in a stronger position than most as it was you who finished with him.
Obviously he still cares/loves you a lot but he is asking for space and that is what you have to do. If you respect his wishes and put no pressure on him to get…"
May 24, 2016
Allicat posted a discussion in Get your EX back
Dear all, is it really that easy to manifest what you want? I broke up with my love almost a month back and I regret it dearly. I know he is my soulmate and I love him and I would love for us to get back together again. However, I know he is still…
May 24, 2016
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