Debs replied to mary trez's discussion IT HAPPENED! i KNEW it! in Get your EX back
"HI Louis.
You have to rid yourself of all the sentimental jargon that reminds you of the good times, be it gifts, photos, messages, etc. Delete their phone number out of your phone too. Take it in steps.... if you can't bear to part with those…"
May 29, 2013
Debs replied to mary trez's discussion IT HAPPENED! i KNEW it! in Get your EX back
"Mary,
The one thing I think you might need to consider is putting those old letters away and not reading them. They were about your last relationship with him. You are still holding on to the old relationship with him from the past. There can't be a…"
May 29, 2013
Debs replied to mary trez's discussion IT HAPPENED! i KNEW it! in Get your EX back
"We only accept the love we think we deserve."
Mar 25, 2013
Debs replied to mary trez's discussion IT HAPPENED! i KNEW it! in Get your EX back
"One last thing....
You want a man who is on your side, not treating you as your foe just because you had loved him and wanted his love in return........men like that are pathetic little self-centered, self-absorbed, selfish whimps. (A lot of 'self'…"
Mar 24, 2013
Debs replied to mary trez's discussion IT HAPPENED! i KNEW it! in Get your EX back
"Yes, and you deserve flowers and love and adoration from a man who is deserving.
This man is not deserving.
Those that deserve our love are the ones who know it is priceless and valuable and are afraid to lose it. Not someone who is wishy washy and…"
Mar 24, 2013
Debs replied to mary trez's discussion IT HAPPENED! i KNEW it! in Get your EX back
"Don't accept him. Ignore it!
He's testing you. It isn't because he wants you. He wants to find out if he still has power over you. Its rude.
If he really wants to connect with you, he will contact you.
 "
Mar 24, 2013
Debs replied to mary trez's discussion weird conversation in Get your EX back
"I personally think RS can be a trap for ourselves. The more you think about another person in that way, the more attached you get to them. The outcome might not be what you desire and then you are left desiring them even MORE because of all the…"
Mar 15, 2013
Debs replied to Phil Spencer's discussion Telepathic Connection With Your Soulmate. in I deserve love
"I've had a ton of energetic connections with my ex. Every time I have gotten very emotional over my ex. He does something, like contacts me in some way, or deletes me from FB. Stuff like that. EVERY time. I am wondering what I should tell him next…"
Mar 3, 2013
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"Not good"
Nov 18, 2012
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"I think you need to understand that the way you feel really has nothing to do with him. It is a deep seeded insecurity within yourself that you need to figure out. There is a source, but only you know your past.

Also, ask yourself what is the worst…"
Nov 18, 2012
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"Non-existent? How is that possible? If he makes you non-existent then you are placing him in the position of God that determines your existence!
Wow. That's a pretty powerful position to place him in in your life.
Can you see how this isn't healthy…"
Nov 18, 2012
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"Aww, Spirit Girl,
To be honest, it looks like you are searching for validation. Something to make you feel special from a source you consider better than you. Something that everyone else wants, but it chooses you. The fact that you want a friend…"
Nov 17, 2012
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"7 for me.
I think you need to confront yourself on this one. Find out what your true fear is when it comes to the thought of completely letting go of him.
Maybe believing there will be no one else and that you can't possibly feel the way you do…"
Nov 17, 2012
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"How long has it been since you two have been apart?"
Nov 17, 2012
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"I want to add something. The fact that it hurts means you aren't really letting go. Why not set him free and let God be in control?  ( or whatever you believe to be god ) Just trust that your highest good is being looked after. That is real love. I…"
Nov 17, 2012
Debs replied to Goddess Radiant Love's discussion I am like a see saw of emotions, its just so hard in Get your EX back
"I understand your feelings. I have, in essence, stopped waiting so I can allow myself to be open to someone else. I want to be happy and in a mutual loving relationship. I don't want to be miserable living in unrequited love waiting for someone who…"
Nov 17, 2012
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