The Mystery replied to Jay El's discussion Friends Wife in I deserve love
"Hello Jay,
 
I read your question and first I want to say with all sensitivity, respect and as a man, I totally understand how you feel and what you're going through 'mentally'. I have been there in a sense.....(and I believe 'all' men and women…"
Apr 21, 2011
Jay El replied to Flanigan Hannigan's discussion Attracting Love in I deserve love
"Hey Flanigan
Look it really sounds like you want to re-establish contact with her. In fact to me it sounds as if this is the only relationship you really want. so why not focus only on this. If it is right for you it'll happen, because she will…"
Apr 12, 2011
Jay El replied to Jay El's discussion Friends Wife in I deserve love
"Hi Barbie
Thanks for your message and your important points.
I am 37 years old so have been married for practically for over half my life (if you exclude the first few years that one doesn’t remember anyway). It is almost that I know no different.…"
Apr 10, 2011
Barbie replied to Jay El's discussion Friends Wife in I deserve love
"Jay,
     I can say that I am not an expert on marriage, never have been married myself, but I have seen sooo many marriages go south in my family. Perhaps thats why I constantly tell my new bf that "Ive managed to avoid walking that plank" all the…"
Apr 8, 2011
Jay El replied to Jay El's discussion Friends Wife in I deserve love
"Thanks Barbie for your quick and structured response.
You are so right about what the marriage part; a little bit of background: I married my wife 16 years ago and have as mentioned 4 children. The eldest are twins boy and girl now 14, then two…"
Apr 8, 2011
Barbie replied to Jay El's discussion Friends Wife in I deserve love
"I cant help but to notice that you say your marriage is "ok" not great, wonderful, amazing, or fantastic, Im not a theparist or anything but it sounds like something is missing to make your marriage just "ok." I for one think its pretty common to…"
Apr 8, 2011
Jay El posted a discussion in I deserve love
Hi Everybody,Great group.Here is my issue. I am married with four children and my marriage is ok. My friend lives 5 minutes away and this is my issue. I cannot get his wife out of my head. Our families know each other (childreen similar ages) but I…
Apr 8, 2011