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  • Work At Home Mom, WAHM, Mom Blogger

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    Lea @ Mother Baby Child & Weight Loss Help


  • Hi...i know it may be hard now that he got some visitation....just make a record of everything. I know it may seem a lot that he has her for that time....but i think you should look at it as giving him a chance to show he can screw up. He will and then you would have even more to fight for what you truly want. keep your head up high and enjoy the time you have with your child.

    As for me....last monday we finally came to an "agreement" after 7 months. I got the better end of the deal....but in my opinion it is too much. He is getting them from wednesday after school to Monday morning every other weekend. He was totally pissed about it that he totally shut down the rest of the meeting. He could not think, respond nothing for the rest of the meeting. Shows me he is a weak man. My lawyer thinks his lawyer pressured him to take the deal. I am trying to look at this from the positive side...in that....now he has so much responsibility...that he would really see how hard it was for me to have done this on my own. He will get tired of it and he will get exhausted. Only a matter of time before he screws up. Just today one of the girls had a game and they r supposed to meet up 20 mins before game time. he showed up 8 mins before game time. See....already screwing up....i am keeping record of all this. Giving him enough rope to hang himself. I am smiling and smiling cause....it is only a matter of time. One of the girls said to me that she is scared to tell him something. So i asked what it was...she said she does not like the bread he buys or what he packs for her lunch. It may seems funny and silly...in one instant but on the other worrying that she scared to say something so simple. She said she wanted me to tell him cause she scared he will yell at her. My other daughter also said she asked him to help her with her training in throwing the ball to her to practice her catching. I usually do it with her everynight for about 5 mins or so before she goes to bed. She said he just send her in her bed and he would not do it and scared to ask him again. They knew they were going to him from wednesday and the oldest said she did not want to go. yesterday they were here for a few hrs and when he came to get them one of them did not want to go and said she wanted to stay here....she was crying and it left me with a heavy heart and i really tried to hold back the tears....it was hard. I know kne day will come and I will get these girls. This is jsut the time to show he will fail. he said if he agreed to this agreement that whenever i need someone to watch the girls i HAVE to call him. I hope he knows it goes both ways...he cannot call his mother..sisters or the woman to watch those girls...he has to call me...no one can watch them but me...even if he has to go somewhere for an hr...he drops them here and picks them back up here. Again...i am jsut smiling...u see karma is going to come around...i planned a family birthday party for one of the girls and his lawyer called my lawyer cause he was mad and i had to cancel his childs party. so he could have his own. Now u see....his mothers bday is falling on the week/weekend i have the girls.....now....again...karma is a b"#¤....he is going to want something from me....again...smiling.

    Well i will be praying for you...keep your head up high...smile...be grateful and live life the best you can. I am trying myself...easier said than done.....but keep your thoughts in the now and the present....when you find yourself slipping back into thoughts of the past...think of a really good uplifting song and jsut sing.....loud!!! that is what i do. hehehehe.

  • Hi....thanks for the advice. It truly has been a rough time and to top it all of this woman decided to contact me on facebook and leaves this long message. i told her what the father and I do concerning these kids is none of her business and she wants an explanation as to why i am flighting for my kids. I told her i owe her no explanation at all in these matters and she does not know me only what he has told her and she is misguided and totally misinformed. I told her to not contact me again...but she continued to send me messages. I am so trying to get these people out of my mind but everyday seems to be more and more and more. It is like there is no escaping and i so need to get this out of my head. I need this custody done with...i need the financials over with...so i can be at peace. Everyday i seem to be getting constant shocks and as soon as i get over one there comes another. I am trying to protect these kids and all he and her are thinking about is themselves. The way he got these girls involved...the fact that he got them involved and the things they both have done around these kids i am in total and utter shock. My kids say things to me that is absolutely heartbreaking and as a mother in be just really kicked me into overdrive into fighting even harder for these kids. As you said i should try meditation.....i think i really should...cause this constant anger in my head and back and forth is not good for me or the kids. I need peace.

  • I've been traveling and then in the process of moving from Phoenix to Atlanta, so didn't get a chance to welcome you when you joined. So a belated... Welcome to Powerful Intentions! Hope you'll add me as a friend. :) Looking forward to connecting more in the future and finding out more about you. I started my spiritual journey with Abraham-Hicks and have been learning from many teachers ever since.

    Feel free to check out my PI page and other sites for pictures and more about my story. Some fun pictures from our evening with the Agape Choir and Michael Beckwith from The Secret which was incredible. And also one from a run-in a while back with Bob Proctor! :) (And that's me with Deepak Chopra below.)

    Hope you're having an amazing week!

    Prosperity & Light,
    Melissa Knecht in Atlanta
    www.LawOfAttractionLeaders.com <-- I Attracted Some Amazing Results... $100,000 in the last 6 months! 1-DeepakandMelissa06.jpg

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