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  stephanie tang February 7, 2014 at 11:00am

  Hi Mallica! I have read your post and I love it. I hope i get to know more.
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  Pink Werewolf July 23, 2013 at 12:32pm

  Hello!! Hope you're doing well. :) I have a question..I've been applying Positive Selfishness to get my ex back and become a better person. He hasn't contacted me yet, but coincidences related to him seem to happen almost everyday, seeing his name, people talking about his country, and everytime I feel fed up and just want to give up on the whole thing, I have a dream about him. Also, his family members have been getting in touch with me, and his (currently ex) girlfriends also contact me and want to know more about me. What does this mean?
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  Hannah April 15, 2013 at 4:18am

  Hi Mallica, I came on this site because I know about the LOA and "The Secret." It has worked for me so many times. Now this time I want to attract my ex boyfriend back to me. Before we got together, I prayed to God to bring me a man with different characteristics that I want, and he brought my ex. I believe in my heart that he is the one. To make a long story short, he broke up with me because he said that I was too selfish and because we didn't get along. We rushed into our relationship without getting to know each other properly which is why I believe was another reason for the breakup. But by reading your posts I realized that I wasn't taking myself seriously and I wasn't loving myself, and being properly selfish. I am not going to say I agree with my ex boyfriend about me being selfish, because I don't, but I do know that I didn't have enough respect for myself and love myself like I need to for him to properly love me the way I deserved to be love, nor did I love him that way either. I want to say thank you for helping me to understand that. I will try the steps that you said to take. Right now I am just trying to have fun, live life, and be abundant. I know I need to do what is right for Hannah. 
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  Kellie January 12, 2013 at 9:45am

  Hi Mallica, came across your get your ex back post. The discussion is closed but I wanted to know how you go about forgetting about your ex and wiping the slate clean. I'm trying to get there but he just keeps coming to mind. How do you just forget about it and move on? Thanks for any help!!!
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  wild_carrots December 25, 2012 at 6:55pm

  Mallica, thank you for replying.  the reply function doesn' work on the thread, so please forgive me for leaving it here as a commIent.   interesting..  am I forcing things by asking for help at the time when I need it?  so, not to force things would be not to ask?  I haven't been forcing things in the other areas.  I didn't want to push.   I waited instead, and that was misguided.  too much time was wasted.  now it's a difficult situation, and I am not sure what you are saying, maybe that I do not deserve your help?  I know that I am at the right place, and there is a lot of inspired advice here, people share and offer their ideas as well as support.  one day I may be able to do that too.  but now I am looking for help and guidance, and that is wrong?  it's even more confusing...    I wish you well, and happy vibrations to all.
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  wild_carrots December 24, 2012 at 9:42pm

  Hi Mallica, I do need your help and advice so much, but maybe there is something about me that makes you not want to help me?    my membership in your coaching group is still pending approval, and I just don't know what to think.  please let me know, if I may be accepted some time soon.  I know that I am a good person, and if my desperate tone is offputting, then I am sorry.  will you give me a chance?

  Happy Christmas and blessings!
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  wild_carrots December 19, 2012 at 1:47pm

  hi Mallica, I found so much wisdom and insight in your comments, and wanted to thank you for sharing what you learned yourself.  I was looking to see if I could apply them to my situation.  I really don't know how, though.  then I found your website last week and applied to join.  when can I be accepted?  please let me know if it is possible, it is very difficult coping on my own, I also need your help and advice.  thank you.  tinacarrots
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  Soul-curry December 18, 2012 at 12:59pm

  Hi Mallica, I found ur precious advice all over here. Tht's why I hope u can help me out in my current situation. I'm not been able to PM you, so mentioning my story in brief here.

  I was in long distance relationship for 8+years n now my ex has found a new gf for him with whom he's going to get married next year. It's difficult for me to forget him n he seems to be confused whom to be with n now somehow have decided so.. Checking out ur expertise I hv understood my mistake and it's all cause of my fears n neediness.  Is there any chance I correct it now?  I'm all into self love now n feeling a change in my life.. I'm not feeling needy but I want him.

  I'll be greatful to u if u help me out in this. thanks.
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  Princess December 14, 2012 at 7:59pm

  Pleasure is all mine.....luckily visited ur website to join n got to know that. Consider me in ur fan list! Lots of love n wishes....u r a blessing to world! Take care.
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  Anna Rahman November 4, 2012 at 11:56am

  Hi Mallica,

  I sent you a friend request yesterday and I really want to PM and receive some advice from you. I would be extremely grateful if you would accept my friend request. Thnak you so much