kia replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"makes sense to me...I feel I am in the same boat actually! But some of my guy friends have said but it isn't about you - it's the other's insecurities."
Jul 5, 2009
carmen left a comment for carmen
"Ok, so this totally works. Since I wrote on this page for the first time I have been putting all my energy into finding someone. I´ve done everything, I stopped placing bags on the passanger´s seat so that someone would sit there with me. I did the…"
Jul 3, 2008
carmen replied to Jane Dise's discussion Hello!! I'm new here!! :) in ABUNDANCE FOR BEGINNERS
"Jane, I know exactly what you´re going through, I´ve actually been there myself and the problem that I think you may be facing is that you know what makes you happy, you know what you have to do to get out of this situation and maybe you even know…"
Jun 12, 2008
carmen left a comment for harry
"Thanks, Harry, for your comment. I agree, the truth is that I live in a city where external beauty and youth are much more important than internal beauty. As a matter of fact, since my last heartbreak which was like a month ago, I have been looking…"
Jun 12, 2008
Tinker replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"Hi Carmen: Boy does your article hit me ... I am extremely overweight but the thing that most people point out to me is that my self esteem is usually very high , I am a very outgoing person trapped inside of a fat person.. Ok that being said we all…"
Jun 11, 2008
ClaudiusCJ replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"Carmen,

You have an interesting problem! I believe that when men see you they see someone beautiful and initially that is very pleasing but when they get closer, they sense you confidence and are not equipped to provide what you need. I believe…"
Jun 11, 2008
carmen replied to Sim Plicity!'s discussion What do you INTEND today? in Powerful Intentions the " Official " Group and Forum
"Today I intend on helping those affected by the storm last night."
Jun 11, 2008
Sheila replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"I understand what you mean. Often independent good looking woman sometimes scares man. But also that is an immage we create about ourself. There are also a lot of man who likes good looking independent succesfull woman, who has something to say and…"
Jun 6, 2008
seekerofwisdom replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"Dear Carmen,
I sure understand what you are saying. You are younger and sounds like a lot better looking than me, but I'm not bad for my age! Pretty tone, long legs, tan beautifully, etc.. Yet always seem to "scare" men off some how. I think for me…"
Jun 6, 2008
carmen replied to Nicole Rivka's discussion Please Help! in The Secret Group And Forum
"Hi Nikki,

I am in a situation similar to yours but it has gone on for much longer. I broke up with my boyfriend with whom I thought I would spend the rest of my life. Now I find myself alone in a city where it is very difficult to meet people…"
Jun 6, 2008
carmen replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"Hi,
Thanks a lot for your messege. Here is my problem: I am actually pretty goodlooking, I´m in my early thirties, I have a great body and really nice hair. I am actually pretty comfortable standing naked in front of the mirror. And on the inside I…"
Jun 6, 2008
carmen replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"Thank you very much, Sheila for your messege. The thing is that I am actually pretty goodlooking, I have exotic latino features, a great body, I weigh 110 lbs, I have beautiful hair, a lovely smile, I am smart, I am a doctor and I´m pretty…"
Jun 6, 2008
Sheila replied to carmen's discussion Self esteem in I deserve love
"Thank you for your message. I can only say, love yourself the way you are and not who you should be. You are perfect the way you are, realize that. Your inner thoughts are trying to tell you something else and you listen to those thoughts. Often…"
Jun 5, 2008
carmen left a comment for Marsha
"Marsha, my advice, even having a broken heart myself is to try to give yourself pleasure by surrounding yourself with people who are joyful and who love you, and by doing things that you like, such as hobbies."
Jun 5, 2008
carmen posted a discussion in I deserve love
I have been lonely for a while now and I am trying to do everything to make it happen, I have followed every intruction. But I am having problems with the most important one that is to love myself. I have tried a lot of ways to boost my self esteem…
Jun 5, 2008